I give up

Nothing but the truth

For my nephew who is like. My son

I guess I missed mine 💞💕💞💞💞💞

Love is Crazy

“She was never crazy, she just didn’t let her heart settle in a cage. She was born wild.. and sometimes we need people like her. For it’s the horrors in her heart which cause the flames in ours. And she was always willing to burn for everything she has ever loved.” 

– R.M Drake

The truth 😇😇😇

I wish I never knew you

Walking away!! Friends or Foes

Don't ignore, if you can't continue what you started!!! Have the courage to accept and inform, it's not a teenage love affair or infatuation! Off late I feel, people have become shallow or may be I am see things in shades of black and white, whichever reason it is, if you can't cope say it! I have very young nieces and nephews and I absolutely care about them and treat them like my own kid! Here is something to chew on for your guys/ kids! 

Communication leads to setting the right expectation be it a steamy love affair or a working relationship. In absence of which assumption Comes into being which leads to hurt and pain. Further leading to termination of professional or personal alliance. 

Here I'd like to add, am very thick with two of my colleagues but the expectations are rightly set! For any professional outbursts I contact one of my colleagues and her strict instructions that she is unavailable for any emotional needs of me! On the contrary the other colleague of mine is only available for emotional needs of mine! So I am covered- touchwood!!!

Secondly don't keep any ego's with someone you speak with, but if they don't value your effort or time or both! Please feel free to walk away! Give no one an opportunity to walk all over you! 

That's all from my side! 

God of small things!!!

For no rhyme or reason I thank god for his generosity and kindness!!! Tonight am going to sleep well after a long time!!! Thanks papa for referring me 😇😍

Expectations kill the joy!!

This is one lesson that I learnt the hard way. Now I don't expect much from anyone be it family, friends and acquaintances. It delights me when someone does smallest of things for me!!! But never in my life I have come someone who has high expectations which are never ending!

I loved my dad to the eternity. in fact those of you who know me skin deep knows that when his condition worsened I was the one who prayed for him to leave for the humble abode! I just could not stand him in so much pain. Meningitis had taken a toll over him, out of five senses he had lost three. And those constant headaches he complained about. I only asked God to take away what was the most precious possession of mine. Again my loved ones would curse that I am being selfish here, and may be my father hoped to live more! 

My argument is only I had no expectations from him and to my knowledge he don't have any from me! So if I set him free from all the mental and physical agony, he would have been delighted! Nothing less.

My only advice to this moron with a idealistic approach of how people should conduct themselves is that he should back off a little and give people some space!!! 

Good bye five star Man!!!

You always pampered me like one of your own!!! Bestowing all your love unconditionally! 

All my childhood memories have you, from clouds above. Every time an air plane passes I would tell mommy, papa or my sisters, " Vibhu jijaji will drop five stars for me from the plane!" They'd joke about it till date!!! But you were and will always be my 5 star man!! 

The news hit me straight and am totally out of words, for you were amazing!! Always amiable and lively!! Rest in peace my 5 star man! Now I don't even need planes to look up, I won't be surprised if it starts showering 5 stars!!! Miss you heaps 😔

A black day for humanity:

The lines are doing round everywhere- "No one puts their child in a boat until water is safer than land!" The disturbing image of a Syrian child who drowned while his family were trying to migrate, have just left me devastated! 

We crib and cry for petty things but their are people who are just aiming to survive! A war stricken Syria provides no solace for its own countrymen! Irrespective of you want to be associated with war or not you are getting affected by it! 

I am no body to judge right from wrong but what I do know is, as adults it's our responsibility to leave a better world for children! Are we justifyied in creating wars? Is that the world we want to leave for the next generation? Or is it the barbarian way we want to teach the children? We are running towards brining the world down! 

For me I am someone who believes in compassion! And as human beings we need to be compassionate! It was heart breaking just to see the image and have been restless since then! 

#AlyanKurdi was basically a messenger of God, who at such a young age could bring world'so attention to something more graver!!! I hope he finally sleeps in peace with no fear! 

We the people, the heartless beings that we have become, will forget it like another news headline and move on with our lives! It's actually a black day for man kind! 

So I commit myself to tell my stories......