Friday, October 9, 2015

Walking away!! Friends or Foes

Don't ignore, if you can't continue what you started!!! Have the courage to accept and inform, it's not a teenage love affair or infatuation! Off late I feel, people have become shallow or may be I am see things in shades of black and white, whichever reason it is, if you can't cope say it! I have very young nieces and nephews and I absolutely care about them and treat them like my own kid! Here is something to chew on for your guys/ kids! 
Communication leads to setting the right expectation be it a steamy love affair or a working relationship. In absence of which assumption Comes into being which leads to hurt and pain. Further leading to termination of professional or personal alliance. 
Here I'd like to add, am very thick with two of my colleagues but the expectations are rightly set! For any professional outbursts I contact one of my colleagues and her strict instructions that she is unavailable for any emotional needs of me! On the contrary the other colleague of mine is only available for emotional needs of mine! So I am covered- touchwood!!!
Secondly don't keep any ego's with someone you speak with, but if they don't value your effort or time or both! Please feel free to walk away! Give no one an opportunity to walk all over you! 


That's all from my side! 

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