Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Expectations kill the joy!!

This is one lesson that I learnt the hard way. Now I don't expect much from anyone be it family, friends and acquaintances. It delights me when someone does smallest of things for me!!! But never in my life I have come someone who has high expectations which are never ending!
I loved my dad to the eternity. in fact those of you who know me skin deep knows that when his condition worsened I was the one who prayed for him to leave for the humble abode! I just could not stand him in so much pain. Meningitis had taken a toll over him, out of five senses he had lost three. And those constant headaches he complained about. I only asked God to take away what was the most precious possession of mine. Again my loved ones would curse that I am being selfish here, and may be my father hoped to live more! 
My argument is only I had no expectations from him and to my knowledge he don't have any from me! So if I set him free from all the mental and physical agony, he would have been delighted! Nothing less.
My only advice to this moron with a idealistic approach of how people should conduct themselves is that he should back off a little and give people some space!!! 

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