Friday, April 24, 2009

Few Moments of FAME!!!!! ;)

Some people sometimes really get lucky….. Today I felt the same when I almost lived my dreams. Like as kid we always wish that someday I’d come on television. Today I actually appeared on one of the talk shows on LOK SABHA CHANNEL, ‘Asmita’ where we were discussing summer courses. I was one of the panelists at the talk show and I was required to talk about BPO trainings- My first love and passion.

I was anxious and excited, like child and was waiting for the cab from the channel which they had confirmed for 2.45 p.m. In spite of being a governmental channel there was only 15 minutes delay. The cabbie was courteous enough to tell me “Sorry for the delay!” I was totally amazed that the studio was inside our very own ‘Parliament House’. I am mesmerized by its vastness…Damn it does not ends and its calmness and serenity. For a moment I felt I am not in Delhi. The feeling was great! The cabbie stopped at an entrance and told me to enter the reception. When I went to the reception there was a security check, believe me when I say security people were 10 shades better than any other security staff(courteous and polite). Anyways I had to undergo 5 such checks but I dint mind it at all as the staff made it look like a child’s play.


We were directed to a corridor where I was introduced to Sameena the hostess of the program. I was shocked to look at her; her face was almost like a pan-cake. Her skin must be cursing her for doing such injustice. Oh man!!! She had make up all over her! She took us inside the studio where I met the other panelists- Mr. Sharma (Director YMCA), Ms Chitra (Director of a Theatre society at a college), Mr. Gaurav Sethi (Owner of a Fashion institute and couple of export houses), Ms Shikha (multi talented person she is a full time teacher at an International School, Part time works for an advertising agency and also runs hobby classes for art and craft) and Someone like me who is highly immature, and a firm believer of her dreams and an enriching experience of 6 years in BPO industry.



Anyways we were given a briefing and Sameena shared with us that there will be no editing hence its going to get recorded live. Shikha and I in particular were nervous when Sameena dropped the bomb- “ Aaap Sabko hindi main baat karni hain! Kosish kijiyega ki aap zyadatar hindi main hi baat karein.” Wohooooo I felt for moment I should run away I cannot do it. My heart started pounding so fast. Okay finally the audience was called in and we were asked to be seated. One of the productions boy was helping the Male panelists to fix their collar mics. When he saw me he said “Take it in!!!” :O Hella ya ……right guys yeah …but I stood up and said “This is embarrassing I mean what does he means by that, I will not do it!!!” Anyways I guess the big boss was listening he came running and disconnected the mic and told me put the damn thing on my collar from inside so that only the mic is visible not the cable. So FAR SO GOOD!!!! That’s all I’d say…..



Then they had this mic testing wherein everybody was bragging and I just said ‘Nashkar my name is Priya” and Sameena told me “Aap thoda aur boliye ….please hindi main boliye ….. !!!!!!! Anyways there I went- “ Mera naam Priya Kanchanbaras hain. Main pichley 6 saalon sey BPO main kaam kar rahin hoon. Angrezi un bhashaon main sey hain jo vishva main srvadhik boli jaati hain, kintu har jagah ek hi tarah sey nahin boli jaati. Aur jaisa ki aap sab jaantey hain ki Call centres main UK, US aur Austrailia sey business aata hain , is liye ek call centre executive ko English ka extensive gyan hona anivarya hain! Inhi karno varsh call centres training mein English Grammar, Telephone etiquettes and voice modulation par adhik zor hota hain. Chyunki aajkal youth learning key saath earn bhi karna chahta hain isliye yeh ek acha zariya hian.” Kuddooozzzzzzzzzz to ma Hindi okay LOL (Lemme translate it for those who cant understand “My name is Priya Kanchanbaras. I have been working for last 6 years in the BPO industry. English is one of the most spoken languages globally, however the diction differs. Since a lot of business is outsourced from US, UK and Australia hence executives need to be well versed in English. That’s why Training at most BPO covers following extensively – English Grammar, Telephone etiquettes, Soft skills, etc.)By the end of it I could hear my heart beating.

Gosh I was so dead!!! Anyways the next section comprised of discussion about “How to convince Parents?” I really liked what Mr. Sharma (Director YMCA) Said “If you are convinced I think it’s easier to convince your parents!” Then Sameena said –“Priya Aaap bataiye Call centres ko aaj bhi ek respectable career key roop main nahin dekha jaata hain- toh bachey kaisey parents ko convince karein?” (Translated in English _” Priya , I would like to ask you that how should youngsters convince their parents when the call centers are not looked upon as a respectable carrier?) Again the spotlight was on me… I shakily started-“ Yeh bahut acha prashn poocha aapney! Main khud ek chotey shehar sey hoon, jiska naam hain Meerut! Aaj sey 6 years pehley jab mainey BPO join kiya toh is tarah key kaafi sawal mujh sey bhi poochey gaye. Aajkal media aur press intervention bahut adhik hain, bachon ko exposure bhi kaafi hain isiliye Mata pita ko explain karna itna mushkil nahin. Aaj kal mata pita bhi apney bachon ki khushi ko hi aapni khushi mantey hain, isliye unko agar patiently samjhaya jaye toh veh samajh jaatey hain!”
(English translation-“ That’s a good question! I hail from a small town – Meerut! Hence when I joined BPO there were lot of eye-brows raised and I had to talk to my parents and convince them as well. Times have changed in past 6 yrs, the press and media has become very active. Hence the exposure youngsters have now is better which gives them an edge to patiently put across things to their parents!) Ahhhh What a relief? Was’ not expecting it, yet there was an applaud! :)

The others were talking as well but to be honest I was focusing more on what I had to say and putting my thoughts in order since I had to think a lot before speaking in Hindi! When Sameena told me that only 2 more sections are left- I breathed a sigh of relief! So in next section Sameena asked –“Kya safety measures liye jaatein hain call centre employees ke liye? Aapko kya lagta hain zayda ladkiya hotin hain call centres main ladko key muqabley main? (English Translation- What about the safety of employees at call centres? What is the ratio of females to males at a call centers?”) This question really caught me thinking. I said I have to be politically correct this time I cant be emotional here, -“ Well, mujhey lagta hian call centre industry, airlines aur hospitality industry ki hi tarah 24*7 kaam karti hain. In 6 years mein mujhey lagta hain ki is industry sey zyada organize koi bhi industry nahin hain. Yahan par policies itni zyada employee centric hain ki ek employee ko koi chinta karnei ki baat nahin!” (I said like any other 24*7 industry be it airlines or Hospitality BPO have and strict policy for employee development and safety. I feel that there is not other industry like BPO for the way it is structured. The policies of any BPO are centric to employees, that an employee is carefree about it!) Sameena interrupted- “Safety policy par thodi rushing daliye?” (Sameena said- What about the safety measure?”) I said- “Agar aap apneyaap sey comfortable hain aapkey saath kuch bhi galat nahin hoga, lekin agar aap hi vulnerable hain toh chaein aap bank ya PSU ya Call centres main ho aap kahin bhi safe nahin!” (I replied-“If you comfortable with who you are there is nothing that would go wrong with you, but if you vulnerable than irrespective of the industry you’re in be it PSU or banks or call centre you’re not safe!) Is par Sameena wittily asked me –“ Kya ratio hota hain ladko ka ladkiyon sey call centres main? (Sameena was quick enough to ask me-“So what is the ratio between the men and women working at BPO’s?)And I was quick enough to say-“ Mujhey lagta hain, Ladkiya ladko sey zyada kushal hoti hain baatein bananey main, isliye ladkiya outnumber kar denti hain ladko ko!!!!!” (I said-“I feel girls are better when it comes to striking a conversation hence the girls always outnumbers boys!” LOL) and everyone in the audience started giggling!

Then Sameena said this is the final section wherein the audience gets to ask the panelists questions, amazed I was that out of 5 questions asked 3 questions were directed to me!
The first question came from a student –“Es mandi key samay main jab saarey badey rashtra aapni economy ko bachaney main lagey huin hain, toh aapko nahin lagta call centre industry khatrey main hian?
(English Translation-“ In the times of Global economy crises, all the nations are working towards building their economy, Don’t ya think joining call centres at such a time would be very risky?)
I smiled (That’s typical of me when I am very nervous!)- “Main kahoongi yeh ek bahut mahatvpoorna sawaal hain aajkal yuvaon key dil main, par koi baat nahin karma chahta! Pichley 9 saalon main BPO in Bharat ka naqsha hi badal diya hain! Is industry ney na kewal beyrozgaroon ko rozgar diya hain balki ek aisey jeevan ka moh diya jo aaj sey 10-12 saal pehley log kewal kalpana kar saktey they! Par mujhey aap sabko yeh batatey huye bahut khushi ho rahi hain ki is mandi key samay main bhi BPO kahin nahin jaarahey hain! Agar antarashtriya level par US, UK aur Australia aapna business wapis ley bhi leyti hain toh India main national level par aaj bhi bahut sey call centre hain! Iska sabsey bada sabot hain koi bhi rozgaar ka supplement, jismein sabsey zyada BPO hiring key hi vigyapan hotein hain! Aur who bhi 20 ya 30 log nain 250 aur 300 log!”
(English translation- “ I’d say that an important aspect that am sure people from BPO industry are concerned about yet no one talks about it! I feel that BPO’s have changed the very face of India! This industry has given not only employment opportunities for the unemployed but has led a lot of people towards a life any youngsters could only dream off couple of years ago. However I am very glad to share with all of you that in the future even if countries like US or UK or Australia withdrew their business there is nothing to worry, India is still in the face of developing the service industry across various industries. So if you pick up any employment supplement it’s filled with hiring at various BPO and the number is not 20 or 30 odd people but it’s 250 to 300 people!”

I guess that was it, the last question, and I was elated to be a part of such discussion. Why am I writing today after so many days of leaving this post incomplete!!!! Moolah - yeah one of the co-coordinator from the channel’s called to ask me how my name is spelled, so that she could mail me my check!!!! WOW what an experience - a really enriching one!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

A Heartfelt Thanks



It takes all kinds of people to make this world. Some people come in your life to make you more miserable and others support you in your crises. It was his choice, if he feels that way, God bless him. I wish him all the luck. But I had no clue that at this stage, all my friends would literally shower all their love and affection towards me. You know at such time we always curse god but I am really glad that god gave me such a support system. Thanks Payal, Celeste, Soumya, Geet and Neha, Prajwal(was not expecting it at all from you), Pema, Leena, Most adorable Brother Ankur..... (sorry if I missed on anyone's name). I am stronger and a better human being coz of you!!! Thanks again guys!

NO matter what happens tomorrow, I would conclude in a filmy style "Hum Dost hain or Rahengey!!!!"

Ranjeet Garu


Sometimes in life you meet people, and you get this feeling that they don't belong to this materialistic, selfish world. And I am blessed to work with one of those. That's one of my colleagues Ranjeet! I was dumbstruck to know that such people exist! He might read it someday or may be not, but he is definitely god sent angel. I mean I have no words when I see his simplicity which is coupled with High thinking. It's so mesmerizing. I mean this person would stand up for every wrong and would give you all heads up. Often his arguments would be supported with examples which are really heartfelt. Like today he wanted to emphasize on the fact that how accuracy of feedback is important for training & the OJT of our employees. All he said was- "I see a beggar on road I would give him 1 Rupees. it should not affect me how he spends it? The accuracy has to be maintained- it need not be spiced up nor it should be mellowed down."
I look forward to come to work only because of him and Upasana! I am not sure if they'd read it or not. but what the heck...Guys we are an awesome team in the first place! Looking forward to have an enhanced learning environment. TEAM MEMBER SALUTE :) May be a Golden Pin someday!!!!!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

“Ask and you shall get”


We all grow up and forget about our own beliefs as kids. I am sure all of us have had stockings right outside our doors expecting Santa to drop in goodies for us! We would pray to god right before our exams, because we believed that our exams papers would comprise of questions we know really well! Yet as we grow up we leave all our faith and beliefs behind, today something happened which definitely made my belief stronger – It was not sheer luck for me. It was a prayer heard!!!!

Today after a long time(since December) my boss was not at work. And believe me when I say what a day? I had no work so the entire day passed really smoothly – wrote a blog, then took couple of silly quizzes on Facebook! I mean I really wish I could spend days like this at work. Anyways, it was a wonderful day – 10 people at office, no boss, unlimited breaks, no arguments, no deadlines, no sessions …nothing …hola! The clock struck 6 and I was off! It was exactly 6:00 by my watch IST.
(Since most of you are not aware my office is in the heart of Delhi which is Cannaught Place. Crossing the road takes nothing less than 10 minutes on a Monday.) I guess since I did not had my daily doze of stress today. I nearly escaped an accident while crossing the road. Anyways, I saw loads of Auto rickshaw, was thinking – “Soon I’d be off to home!” What a pity???? This is how the conversation went:

Me: Auto!!!!!!
Auto Driver: Kahan jaana hain???? (Where would you go?)
Me: Mayur Vihar!!!!(spilled the beans I guess)
Auto Driver: Nahin Madam wahan Nahin jayengey!!!(I will not go to Mayur Vihar!!!)
Ghrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

1….2……3….4….5…6…7….. my……. my patience was kind of wearing off. There were near about 10-15 Auto Drivers who refused out rightly to go to Mayur Vihar! Worst, they kept waiting right next to me!! I was cursing all of them in my heart (Am I not human???) What’s wrong in going to Mayur Vihar??? And I saw two Autos coming towards me.

All I could remember is this phrase from a Movie I watched last night -Evan Almighty. God tells Evan- Ask and you shall get! I did ask for it! The Auto Guy agreed in one go. I did not even negotiate things with him. This really was a blissful moment for me!!!!
I ardently believe in the power of almighty. Today my belief became even firmer!

Monday, April 13, 2009

Self Appraisal


Today for the first time I have to write a self appraisal at work. One thing, I have never done in my life till date. Looking at those 10 sheets blew me off my feet. How could a person go on talking about his day to day work filling up the spaces for him? In such a short span of 7 months how could an organization ask me such a thing? Amidst such dilemma a funny thought crossed my mind, how about a personal self appraisal? As in how good I am to my age, values and ethics? Did it ever cross your mind?

The form talks about “Personal Goals first” wait a second …does anyone has personal goals? I am asked to write 4 of them and critically analyzing each one of them. Yeah okay that’s easy first and foremost would be a Well Paying job at a good Brand. The only constraint is a good Boss (phew…...I am sure most of you would agree with me here. As they say “People leave bosses not the organizations!).
Now the Second Goal would be Spending Quality time with my family and friends! Weekends are great to do that but most often we end up spending time over phones with family and friends. Another constraint to this goal would be long work hours because loads of work. Also if you are not one of those in love all your family and friends talk about is your marriage, you try avoiding them. I am getting there …… man this has really got me thinking. I would not be doing justice here.
The third goal is being able to Pursue a hobby or a study course. It could be anything from dancing to studying a course of my interest. The challenges to this goal would be time, stress and work load. You really don’t have to be brilliant but a first division ensures that your resume looks good! The very thought of putting it in my goal excites me.
Last goal on my agenda would be To trust only myself for the rest of my life. I have been a learner and a believer. I have always shown immense faith and trust in people I love and am friends with. Having said that I feel people easily break your trust and shatter your dreams, and walk past you. The constraint is I can’t control meeting people and liking them, what I can control is, trusting them and their loyalty towards me.

Aint it interesting? Let’s see what’s next! The next column says “Additional Accomplishments and Projects” Okay Yeah I gotcha what to write here- we might not all be doing it on a full time basis. But yeah Firstly, how about being responsible & educated citizens. Being Indians first and then north Indian, South Indians, North East people etc. Things like exercising our fundamental rights and duties, voting diligently, believing in the system created by people we elect, etc. Secondly, adding value to our society by being involved in some or the other social service. I’d like to work for the upliftment of under-privileged kids or the physically challenged.
Ahem now I have to rate myself at all these goals so I’d give myself “Meets Most” which is 5 on 10 as if now.
Wow I dint knew I would have so much to accomplish. I am getting better at this, what say?
Now the next section is still better as it has multiple choices, it talks about Competency (essence and values) which talks about Excellence, Innovation, Integrity, Passion, Respect, Peer orientation & Attention to detail.

As an Individual I want to be excellent at relationships that I am born with and I build. I’d like to come up with creative ideas to make someone feel special. Do all of us have a good digestive system? I bet most of us don’t! So how about keeping people secrets to our selves and keeping their trust. Igniting our passion does not need a movie, a death, a crime or a success. I want to be passionate about every form of life around me. “What you give is what you get?” I feel to earn respect I need to give it too. When it comes to friends, we often tend to miss on their opinions, ideas, etc. This only leads to strenuous relationships; if we only listen to them I mean c’mon they are human beings toooo!!!! This one is quite new attention to detail which implies that I collect all the relevant information before acting. Here I fail completely as I either over understand or I completely ignore. I always end up reacting to a situation not acting on it. Oh my gawd!!!!
When it comes to ratings I would rate myself “Below Many” in most of the things I discussed. That would be 3 on 10.
Life’s not Always fair, all our lives we keep running behind moolah, fame, love…but just look around there is so much to attain so that I CAN BE A BETTER HUMAN BEING!!!