Pleged or Being Single

"Life was more fun when I was single!!!!" or "Man I think I had more fun when I wasn't married!!!" These are some of the replies that I get from my friends who have been in the wedlock for a long time. My own sisters always told me "Once you get married then you'd see!!!" Honestly till date I feel there is nothing about me which has changed, post my marriage. I am still the same old girl, who had dreams and I still love chasing them. In fact my confidence has reached new heights due to the extensive support and encouragement of my husband. Here I'd like to share, that this is not some agony aunt column that I would post a formula for a perfect marriage.

This is more to do with expressing myself about the jinx of this association. For most people I know getting bonded was an image transformation or an adventure! I even know of some bombshells who were planning to call off there wedding on the D-Day. They were fearing what if it does not works out? Something that I would always want to think about before I take the plunge, not on the D-Day. Some of them realized their mistake right after the alliance and followed the path of separation. Hopefully such couples at-least had the understanding to part ways peacefully.Someone I know of had given an ultimatum to her long time Beau, they finally got hitched and the rest as we say is "History"!!!
For only a handful I know it was a well sought decision, a choice they made consciously. It's quite amusing to meet such couples, see the level of understanding between them esp the ability to fathom each others silence. I feel it's a beautiful phase of one's life if you nurture it, only adds on to the fun and happiness in your life. Be it any given day, whether you are in best or worst moods, you always have someone to double your joy or share your sorrow. It makes you complete, in every sense.Like the famous saying "All that glitters is not gold!" similarly everyone who gets married does not have a smooth ride. You need to put in lot of efforts and make it work. At any given point of time if one of the partners gives up... it won't work.

I don't see anything in being single or being double oops I meant being pledged, all you need is to be comfortable in your own skin. I know lot of interesting angels how are still single yet enjoy life to the fullest!