Positive Stroke

Today a very young guy taught me a very important lesson of life! The ability to be happy and positive during the most tryant times! How it reflects well on everyone around you? How you change your own perception? Trust is not an easy thing to earn, it takes a while to earn the trust and just seconds before the trust is lost! 

Both in your professional and personal life, the Worst that can happen is that people no longer want to be associated with you! But just because of that fear you can't let them walk all over you! You have to be fearless! So let's say if your husband or wife or your child or boss decides to part ways with you - so be it! If they think they can manage without you, you should move on too! There might just be gazillions oppurtunities waiting for you!!! God always gives you what you deserve and the dreamy cancerian I am I know with my dad's reference I will get only good things in life! 

Today in particular inspite of being so sick and down yet I am elated!

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder

After 2 back to back long weekends am back, but honestly the sleepy land I am in, it does not aggravates or excites my inner demons to write much. I love the natural bonanza NZ has to offer.I love the peace people enjoy here, no more Life is a race :) Can only remember this wonderful poem I read as kid in English

"What is this life full of care we don't have time to stand and stare" only with a lil zing
"I love this life of stand and stare, no time to compete and care ;)
Posting one of the pic at Bethells Beach, the black sand beach is surfer's paradise :)

Pleged or Being Single

"Life was more fun when I was single!!!!" or "Man I think I had more fun when I wasn't married!!!" These are some of the replies that I get from my friends who have been in the wedlock for a long time. My own sisters always told me "Once you get married then you'd see!!!" Honestly till date I feel there is nothing about me which has changed, post my marriage. I am still the same old girl, who had dreams and I still love chasing them. In fact my confidence has reached new heights due to the extensive support and encouragement of my husband. Here I'd like to share, that this is not some agony aunt column that I would post a formula for a perfect marriage.

This is more to do with expressing myself about the jinx of this association. For most people I know getting bonded was an image transformation or an adventure! I even know of some bombshells who were planning to call off there wedding on the D-Day. They were fearing what if it does not works out? Something that I would always want to think about before I take the plunge, not on the D-Day. Some of them realized their mistake right after the alliance and followed the path of separation. Hopefully such couples at-least had the understanding to part ways peacefully.Someone I know of had given an ultimatum to her long time Beau, they finally got hitched and the rest as we say is "History"!!!
For only a handful I know it was a well sought decision, a choice they made consciously. It's quite amusing to meet such couples, see the level of understanding between them esp the ability to fathom each others silence. I feel it's a beautiful phase of one's life if you nurture it, only adds on to the fun and happiness in your life. Be it any given day, whether you are in best or worst moods, you always have someone to double your joy or share your sorrow. It makes you complete, in every sense.Like the famous saying "All that glitters is not gold!" similarly everyone who gets married does not have a smooth ride. You need to put in lot of efforts and make it work. At any given point of time if one of the partners gives up... it won't work.

I don't see anything in being single or being double oops I meant being pledged, all you need is to be comfortable in your own skin. I know lot of interesting angels how are still single yet enjoy life to the fullest!

2012: My first post

When I was a little girl,
I can still remember our happy moments we shared together.
All the things you taught us while you lead by example
People always said I'm a spoiled brat, but You always said No she's not.

You're my mentor, you were the living legend who taught me a lot of things in life,
Respect for elders, things that is useful to our everyday life.
As Dad, you showed me the how, the why, and the where,
No matter what has come about; you were always there.

That was winters of 2010 when I heard the news.
The doctor said you're in pain, and there's nothing they could do.
The result of your biopsy was you have cancer of the liver,
After I heard that, my world started to shiver.

You talked to me and said not to loose faith,
My heart broke when I saw you dying.
Doctors said only 4 more months to go
You proved all of them wrong and gave all of us strength and hope
On December 13, you left for heaven.
That was so painful and the hardest thing to accept, for a grieving daughter that I am.

Years may come and go, but your memory will never be erased.
I once knew a man, who gave love at his best,
And no one can ever take your place. I miss you so much DAD!
RIP DAD

This also means am going to write more regularly from this year!!! One of the things which always has given me the platform to express.